i would like a trampoline

2011 has proven itself that it totally suck
Rest in Peace Shang Jie
we will all miss you...

overdue photos

jamie oliver is the guy that makes me enjoy watching at cooking shows .
how i wish he would open one restaurant right here in Singapore

university or not

one module down :)

went to Dialogue in the Dark@NP today
it was an enriching experience
uses other senses to move around
the whole room was so dark and i got to feel for once how it was to be blind
my host evan has a sweet voice and shes only 22 years old
sometime life can be so unfair


saw an advertisement of manhattan fish market
i wannna eat manhattan 8 treasure platter $28.90

i wish i can go somewhere far far away

i have strong food cravings
1.Banana
2.Satay
3.Thai food
4.Chinese food especially Xiao Long Bao
5.Ikanbili fried rice
6.Stingray
7.Gui tiao

SNSD NEW SONG!

learning abacus is fun
airline reservation system
:)

" When you ask people about love, they tell you about heart break. When you ask people about belonging, they'll tell you their most excruciating experiences being excluded. And when you ask people about connection the stories people told me were about disconnection. "

out

some guys can be so superficial

it has been the most horrible week
bad start to january 2011
2 project due
late submission for one
FUCK
i updated about it with my twitter

on the bright side
as quoted by min " I am a survivor "
i will continue rock the world!

and curry fish head is yummy



shay shay shaytards

There are certain things in life where you know it´s a mistake but you don´t really know it´s a mistake because the only way to really know it is a mistake is to make that mistake and look back and say, ´Yup, that was a mistake´. So really, the bigger mistake would be to not make the mistake because then you´ll go your whole life not really know if something is a mistake or not. And damn it, I made no mistakes. I´ve done all of this: my life, my relationship, my career mistakes-free. Does any of this make sense to you ?-- Lily Aldrin

birthday celebration

then a wake

then school

depressing

Happy 20th Birthday YIN LENG
reached the number 2 big no.!

singing in top1 and dinner at newyorknewyork

shes dressed up

prettiest of all

mudpie as birthday cake!

group photo

haiz

haiz

haiz

FUCK 2011

(L)

reasons why couples break up

from ohsofickle.blogspot.com

1. Old Fears Surface.
It's to be expected that being in an intimate relationship will inevitable bring up fears and challenges from the past. These might include fearing not being good enough, attractive enough, wealthy enough or even feelings of abandonment. If fears are not expected, looked at and healed, they interfere in some way or another with the health of every relationship.

Ask yourself if your fears are "true" or are you just making "stories" up in your head. If you are creating those "stories" and there's no basis of truth to them, then change your thinking.

You may not have healed your broken heart from past relationships that ended and you find it very difficult to trust your current partner or open your heart completely to him or her. We suggest that you stop living from the hurt of those past relationships and bring yourself into the present moment, without continuing the "stories" of the past. Commit to starting over, allowing your fears to be there but reminding yourself that this is a new day.

2. Not Making their Relationship a Priority.
Many couples take each other for granted and don't give their relationship the attention it needs most of the time. The lack of closeness and connection can be overwhelming and can cause great loneliness. Make your relationship a priority in your life. Set aside time everyday to connect with your partner.

We believe that sex happens long before the bedroom. It starts all day long when you have thoughts about your partner--Are these thoughts positive or negative? It continues when you come together--Are you happy to see each other and express love and appreciation or do you great each other with a laundry list of chores, things to be done or grievances?

3. Unfaithfulness
....is a supreme destroyer of relationships...nothing really wounds a person so much as when his/her partner isn't happy enough at home that he/she decides to go looking for what's missing in other places. Cheating on your lover is probably the coldest, most hurtful thing you can do to a person and usually results in nigh-unfixable breakups...so the best way to deal with the problem is to never have it in the first place.

4. Not healing your heart after a previous relationship breakup
Many people go from relationship to relationship without truly healing their hearts. They never discover what went wrong in their previous relationship and what they could have done differently. They keep repeating the same mistakes over and over again and always expect a different outcome.

We suggest that you take the time to heal your broken heart and your attachment to being a victim, in being right or whatever holds you to a previous relationship. Spend some energy in taking responsibility for what happened, forgiving yourself and your previous partner, and deciding what you want to change in your life.

5. No excitement
Allowing a relationship to get boring and stale is perhaps one of the most tragic ways that one can end, as it's pretty much just a case of so little going on that a person doesn't really care anymore. Lack of spontanaeity and "spice" is a relationship's enemy, although you don't have to freak out if you aren't doing something new every hour. Spend time together, and do things that are fun for both of you! It's crazy to simply let a relationship "reach its expiration date."

6. You compare your partners to others.
If you are always measuring your partner up against other people, you should probably stop and measure your relationship. Everyone has attractive and unattractive aspects and a good relationship evolves in spite of them not because of them.

7. You give, give, give or take, take, take.
All relationships must, by necessity, provide mutual benefit. It does not mean absolute equality but if you find that you are no longer deriving any benefit from the relationship, move on.

1.1.11
4 ones
:)
went out with min,shan,jojo,kaiyi and hongwei
INDIAN FOOD @ Little India

BANANA LEAF RESTAURANT APOLO























seeee we finished the fooood

after that heavy dinner

headed to NEX

near shopping mall in serangoon

there is alway spaces for desserts in the tummy

mango snowie

exactly the same one i ate in bugis

without the mango juice balls
yogurt snowie (L)
chocolate snowie :(

end of food trail

great food for 2011

been getting a little extra weight

but its worthwhile ;)